Good leaders (good, as in “worthy,” not merely “effective”):

  • shoulder, rather than shirk, responsibility.
  • treat power and influence as entrustments, not entitlements, given by followers for the purpose of serving the common good.
  • make tough calls for the sake of justice and compassion.
  • honor principle more than popularity and personal conscience more than political calculation.
  • follow an inner compass instead of yielding to external pressure.
  • trust in the liberating power of dealing with reality and telling the truth.
  • recognize that leadership is costly, pay the price for it, and resist the lure of unethically profiting from their role.
  • own-up to their mistakes and wrongs, learn from them, and, wherever possible, repair the damage they have done.
  • know that blame-shifting and scapegoating undermine their credibility and corrode their character.
  • humbly admit what they don’t know and open themselves to the perspectives of other people, especially to people at the margins and on the edges.
  • have a sense of gravitas—depth and weightiness of being and bearing, rather than shallowness and triviality—which shows up as dependability, dignity, and sound judgment.
  • practice gratitude for the privilege of serving.
  • love the people they lead.