by Guy Sayles | Mar 24, 2018 | Uncategorized
I’ve not written much lately, and a few of you have asked, “Are you okay? We haven’t heard from you in a while.”The easiest explanation is that time has been scarce. Teaching at the university, serving as Transitional Pastor at a local church, and working on a few...
by Guy Sayles | Feb 25, 2018 | Uncategorized
The season of Lent became more deeply significant to me in 2014.Most folks who read my reflections know that, on Ash Wednesday of that year (March 5), I began treatment for recently-diagnosed Multiple Myeloma. The insidious cancer itself, the powerful drugs I’ve taken...
by Guy Sayles | Jan 26, 2018 | Uncategorized
Character is the primary arena of change. We can’t change the DNA we inherited, the circumstances into which we were born, or the families which shaped and misshaped us, or the wounding events we’ve undergone. Some things about our bodies, temperaments, and minds are...
by Guy Sayles | Jan 21, 2018 | Uncategorized
(This is longer than my usual posts; if I had time, I would make it shorter!)Change is possible, but not if we try to do it on our own.In an earlier post, I identified some of the factors which combine to make change more likely:emotional-spiritual energy from beyond...
by Guy Sayles | Jan 9, 2018 | Uncategorized
When Anita and I were in seminary, we served a small and loving congregation in southern Indiana. One of our next-door neighbors, a generous man in his late fifties and a faithful member of the church, was crustily cynical about the possibility of change. At...
by Guy Sayles | Dec 23, 2017 | Uncategorized
Even though we lose track of in the glitter and sweetness of our celebrations, Christmas is intensely and insistently political. It’s about who’s in charge.Jesus was born in an occupied land and under the shadow of Rome’s Emperor. It was his decree that Mary and...
by Guy Sayles | Dec 19, 2017 | Uncategorized
I’m allergic to sentimentality.I break-out in heart-hives when I brush up against counted-cross stitch samplers of motivational quotes, with greeting cards that feature babies, puppies, kittens, and balloons, and with rhyming love poems printed on a pastel background...
by Guy Sayles | Dec 4, 2017 | Uncategorized
This post is the last of three in which I respond to themes in Paul Kalanithi’s beautiful book, When Breath Becomes Air. Kalanithi’s said: “Severe illness wasn’t life altering; it was life-shattering” (120). I agree.To observers who don’t have (because no...
by Guy Sayles | Dec 2, 2017 | Uncategorized
Here is the second of three posts in which I respond, out of my own experience with serious illness, to a few themes in Paul Kalanithi’s beautiful book, When Breath Becomes Air. I ended the first with this resolve: The only way to live is to live.In tension with that...
by Guy Sayles | Nov 29, 2017 | Uncategorized
A friend recently invited me to meet with a book group that was reading the late Paul Kalanithi’s beautiful memoir, When Breath Becomes Air. It describes his heartbreaking but heart-mending sojourn through cancer into an all-too-early death at age 37. ...
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